Genital piercing....what to get ????

[Fat-boy]

Hey folks, I'm about to get my first piercing. I'm leaning toward the "Dydoe"....I want to get it through the center portion of the head of my peins...." that seems to be the BEST spot that the women enjoy duringsex" based on the reviews I've read!!
Most of the pics I've seen the barbell looks too short and skinny for what I want, I want the balls to be fairly prominent at each end of the bar..The head of my c*ck is very defined so i'm thinking I should be able to get the look I want. Whats the best size to get, any suggestions.
Thx

[BadKiTtY]

I would choose the dydoe after a lot of careful consideration. Many men have a difficult time getting them to heal and experience a lot of trouble with the piercing being fussy.

Why not start with a Pa or reverse Pa?

[Fat-boy]

BadKiTty,
the pa is also the only other consideration I'm having....just trying to muster up the balls to do it...Do you think the complications w/ healing time and pussiness with other guys has to do with the size of the penis head or anything...dumb questions I know, but i'm just trying to figure it all out.

[Cloud]

My advice would be to choose a piercing YOU like, not something you think women will enjoy. it's your body, and you should be proud of and enjoy your own adornment. You'll be wearing it yourself far more than you will be "using" it.

Piercings are not magic bullets--they don't automatically improve sex; in fact, they can occasionally detract from your partner's pleasure. There's also a wide variety in the way women are built, and there's no piercing that is universally pleasing to them.

[Cloud]

no dumb questions! You are right to do research and think about them/ here are a couple of posts from wise and helpful Tribers on the subject of PAs which you might find helpful.

http://piercedconsumer.com/2009/09/13/t ... ject-pt-1/

http://piercedconsumer.com/2009/10/18/pa-panel/

Also, go out and buy yourself a copy of Elayne Angel's The Piercing Bible. It has the best, most detailed description of genital piercings anywhere, and will be the biggest help to you, I swear.

[Fat-boy]

Thanks Cloud,
you are right.....and the 2 I like, looks wise and everything else is the Pa and the Dydoe....My wife and I are very satisfied with the sex performance as it is now. I had read womens comments that a few experienced pain and others experienced better pleasure with a man w/ a dydoe. Guess like you said, all women are different so we'll just have to get one done and see what happens....

[Cloud]

since you are a married man (which I was unable to suss out from your initial post or profile) you do have to take your wife's pleasure and comfort into consideration, though.

[Fat-boy]

BTW....Thx for the two posts from Tribers on the Pa......Good info

[Cloud]

you're welcome; and let us know what you decide

[Fat-boy]

I'll do it.....ya'll would'nt by chance be able to recommend some studio's here in the Atlanta area would ya.....LOL...